Tuesday, September 1, 2020
I have only known Tom (Carol, and the dogs) for the past 12 years but quickly grew to love them upon introduction. When in Kennetcook, there was never a time when Jeff and I would either be at their house, or Tom and Carol would be "up at the camp” or all of us, at their cabin together – feeding and waiting for the deer to arrive at dusk. We had many great times together. I especially enjoyed our times around the campfires and the many shared “sociables” … and oh, it would be remiss of me not to mention the one thing I could have endured less of when Tom and Jeff were together - the amount of flatulence - okay “farts” - often let loose by the two of them no matter who was near. Many of giggles over gas.
Even when Tom’s physical health started to fail him, his mind remained sharp. He continued to share stories about family, community and travels, and was never reluctant to express his strong opinions around worldly political affairs, business or sports – all while sipping his favourite beers, of course. I felt like I knew Tom his entire life. I believe Tom lived a full life. Just last year, Tom told me there wasn’t anything left on his “bucket list.” He had done everything he really wanted to do and had gone the places he most wanted to see – majority of it, with his “lovely wife”, Carol.
My heartfelt condolences go out to Carol, Wendy, Sharon, David, and their families, as well as special friends Pam and Barry from England. I know Tom played an important role in many of our lives and he will be sadly missed. For me, Kennetcook will not feel the same without Tom, but I will try not to cry because his life is over. I will smile because his life happened. Rest in Peace, Tom.
With Sincere Sympathy,
Brenda Blakeney
